Signs of Elder Financial Exploitation and What to Do

Jeremy AtwoodElder Law

jeremy atwood speaking with senior woman about financial exploitation

TL;DR:

Elder financial exploitation can show up through unusual spending, sudden account changes, or isolation. If you notice warning signs, you can take measures to protect your loved one and report the issue to the proper authorities.

When we picture elder abuse, we often think of physical harm or neglect. But one of the most common (and heartbreaking) forms of abuse doesn’t leave bruises. Instead, it drains bank accounts, erodes trust, and quietly steals a lifetime of savings. 

This is called elder financial exploitation, and it can happen to anyone.

Unfortunately, this type of exploitation can be found worldwide, and it’s more prevalent than many of us think. The World Health Organization estimates that nearly 1 in 15 adults over age 60 experience some form of financial abuse, and reports of elder abuse overall are rising across the United States.

If you have an elderly loved one in your life, you need to know what this type of financial exploitation looks like, why it happens, and how you can step in to help. Let’s talk about it. 

What Is Elder Financial Exploitation?

Elder financial exploitation happens when someone illegally or improperly uses an older adult’s money, property, or assets for their own gain. It might be a family member who gained power of attorney and starts taking funds for personal use, or a stranger running investment scams or romance scams that target vulnerable seniors.

In plain terms: it’s stealing, often disguised as “helping.” Supposed good intentions don’t make this type of fraud legal or moral. 

What Makes the Elderly More Susceptible to Financial Exploitation? 

There’s no single reason why older adults are at higher risk. For many, cognitive decline, loneliness, or physical limitations make it easier for dishonest people to take advantage. Others simply trust too easily, especially when the person exploiting them is a relative or caregiver.

According to the Federal Trade Commission, the most common financial crimes affecting older adults include identity theft, fraudulent financial transactions, and financial fraud involving fake investments or lotteries. In fact, it’s estimated that adults aged 60 and older lose more than $1.6 billion annually to fraud and scams.

The truth is, even financial institutions sometimes fail to notice unusual activity until the damage is done.

Common Types of Elder Financial Exploitation

Elder financial abuse doesn’t always look like a crime at first glance. In fact, it often doesn’t. 

Sometimes it’s hidden in “helpful” gestures such as a relative offering to pay bills, a neighbor who starts running errands, or a stranger promising easy investment returns. But behind the surface, these situations can quietly turn into serious financial exploitation of the elderly.

Here are some of the most common ways financial abuse shows up:

  • Unauthorized use of bank accounts or credit cards
  • Changing names on deeds, wills, or titles without consent
  • Misuse of power of attorney for monetary or personal benefit
  • Forging signatures on checks or legal documents
  • Pressuring an elderly person to invest, donate, or gift money
  • Financial exploitation of the elderly by family members, such as “borrowing” funds that never get repaid

These kinds of acts can strip an older adult of their security, independence, and dignity. Each case of elder financial exploitation is a loss of money, but it’s also a deep betrayal of trust that can leave lasting emotional and financial scars.

If you suspect that something isn’t right, trust your instincts and speak up. Early action can protect a lifetime of savings and, more importantly, your loved one’s peace of mind.

The Top Elder Financial Exploitation Red Flags 

When someone you care about starts to act differently around money, it can be easy to brush it off as forgetfulness or a change in habits. However, sometimes those small shifts are the first clues that something much bigger is going wrong. 

Elder financial exploitation rarely starts with a large withdrawal. Instead, it starts quietly, with misplaced trust, subtle pressure, or small “favors” that go unchecked.

Spotting the signs of elder financial exploitation early can make all the difference. Watch for these red flags:

  • Sudden, unexplained withdrawals or missing funds from bank accounts
  • A new “friend” or family member who isolates the older adult
  • Unpaid bills despite sufficient savings
  • Confusion about recent financial transactions
  • Missing property or valuable items
  • A change in spending patterns or lifestyle
  • New names added to accounts or legal documents

Even the smallest irregularity deserves attention. If you notice one of these warning signs, don’t wait. Have a kind, open conversation and, if needed, contact a trusted professional or adult protective services. 

What to Do If You Suspect Elder Financial Abuse

It’s better to step in gently now than to discover later that years of hard-earned savings have disappeared. 

If you think an older adult you care about is being taken advantage of, don’t ignore it, even if the person involved is a family member.

Here’s how to take action:

  1. Talk to your loved one gently. Ask open-ended questions about their finances and who helps manage them.
  2. Contact Adult Protective Services (APS). They handle elderly financial exploitation reports and can investigate suspected abuse.
  3. Reach out to your local police department or law enforcement agencies if theft or fraud is involved.
  4. Notify their bank or financial institution. Many now have dedicated teams for suspected elder financial abuse.
  5. Alert the major credit bureaus (Equifax, Experian, TransUnion) to place a fraud alert and monitor for identity theft.
  6. Report scams to the Federal Trade Commission and your state Attorney General’s Office.

It can feel uncomfortable to step in, especially when the suspected abuser is a family member. However, silence allows the exploitation to continue, and compassion sometimes means taking hard steps.

Looking for Extra Support? Hire a Trusted Elder Law Attorney

When emotions run high and family relationships are involved, professional guidance makes all the difference. A trusted elder law attorney can help you work through reporting procedures, revoke a misused power of attorney, recover lost assets, and put safeguards in place to prevent future abuse.

At Jeremy Atwood Law, we take that responsibility seriously. Our team helps families across Utah address elder financial exploitation with understanding and respect. Whether you’re responding to suspected abuse or planning ahead to protect your loved one’s finances, we’re here to help you make informed decisions every step of the way.

Protecting Financial Health Before Elder Abuse Happens

As the saying goes, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Before you see any glaring red flags, we recommend encouraging your loved ones to:

  • Appoint a power of attorney with clear limits and oversight
  • Use automatic bill pay and account alerts through reputable financial institutions
  • Review bank accounts and statements with a financial caregiver or advisor
  • Keep sensitive documents and passwords secure
  • Stay in contact with multiple family members to avoid isolation

Even simple systems of checks and balances can protect an older adult’s financial health and peace of mind.

When You and Your Family Need Help, You’re Never Alone

Elder financial exploitation is painful to face, especially when trust has been broken by someone close. But help is out there.

At Jeremy Atwood Law, we stand beside Utah families dealing with elder financial abuse, power of attorney misuse, and other sensitive elder abuse matters. Our Layton law office is here to help you understand your legal options, stop ongoing exploitation, and restore stability for your loved one.

If you suspect abuse, book a free 15-minute consultation. Together, we can protect what your loved one worked a lifetime to build.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What are common signs of elder financial exploitation?

You may notice unexplained withdrawals, missing funds, or sudden changes in financial documents. Isolation from family or new “friends” influencing decisions can also raise concern.

2. Who is most likely to commit financial exploitation?

It can involve strangers, caregivers, or even family members. Many cases involve someone the older adult trusts and relies on for help.

3. What should you do if you suspect exploitation?

You can document what you see and report concerns to Adult Protective Services or local law enforcement. Quick action helps limit further financial harm.

4. How can you help prevent financial exploitation?

You can stay involved in your loved one’s finances and watch for unusual activity. Setting up safeguards like account alerts can help you catch problems early.

5. Why is early detection important?

Early action can reduce financial loss and protect your loved one’s well-being. It also improves the chances of stopping the exploitation and recovering assets.

Jeremy Atwood

Jeremy Atwood is a Utah-based attorney with more than 17 years of experience in elder law, estate planning, family law, and probate. He founded Jeremy Atwood Law in 2008 to help families across Northern Utah protect their futures and resolve legal challenges with clarity and care.

Jeremy earned his Juris Doctor from Washburn University School of Law and holds a bachelor's degree in Child and Family Studies from Weber State University. He is licensed to practice in Utah and has built a reputation for delivering trusted legal advice in areas such as wills, trusts, Medicaid planning, guardianships, divorce, and long-term care.

Clients appreciate his ability to guide them through difficult decisions with professionalism and compassion. Whether you are planning your estate or dealing with a family legal issue, Jeremy provides reliable legal support backed by years of focused experience.